What is the epitamy of sexy? Of course our first response goes to thinking of some gorgeous model or actor/actress. We, even though we are human and have high intelligence, are basically primal when it comes to the attraction of the opposite sex. It is our first response. Just the way a female lion will mate with the strongest male because she wants her cubs to be of a superior bloodline. And of course the male lion mates with multiple females cause he wants the most if his bloodline to populate the area. We are not so different. But there are very few species that mate for life such as the wolf or bald eagle. And there is ourselves, sorta. Divorce and cheating are highly noted in our species. So maybe the wolves and bald eagles should be commended for what us humans can't seem to acquire.Once you get past that primal attraction you start to look for other "sexy" qualities. We look for intelligence, humor, and compatibility. These and many other qualities are a different kind of sexy. Thus the true test begins to see if your possible mate is someone to commit to. This is all common knowledge. But my question remains. What is sexy? Or sexier I should say? Is it the primal attraction or the commitment attraction qualities? Maybe it soley depends on where you are in your life and what you are seeking.
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L George Wallace
6/4/2013 08:20:31
I married my wife because she had many good qualities, she is pretty, sexy, sweet, a good mom, and cook. So what happened after 39 years of marriage she asked me to move out last August and we have been separated ever since. I never cheated on my wife although I have had opportunities to, I never would. I hope after we both work through our differences and issues we can get back together, but then who knows maybe by that time neither one of us will want the other. I hope I am wrong as I do love my wife and want it to work, but I always say the wrong things.
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Lisa A Baeringer
6/4/2013 08:25:11
Very well put. I agree for a long term relationship there needs to be sexy inner qualities. I'm sad to say I don't kniw why after 39 yearz of marriage she quit. I pray ir does work for you both because that is a lot of years, memories and fondness to just throw away.
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